Friday, March 11, 2011

B.Y.O.C. - XXX Rated version

Via Draz (and her curious followers)
BYOC – Bring Your Own Crazy - *usually* 5 harmless questions we answer to get to know each other better. (today we’re gonna get to know each other better than our own mothers do I’m afraid) Also used as a break for your blogging brain. Copy and paste if you dare.


For those of you who would love to answer but are afraid of who might be reading your blog don't forget about the safe blog!

I'm going to clarify before answering that I have a very open view on intimacy. For those new followers, I am an erotic blogger of about five + years. In the words of my old boss when talking about erotic blogging he asked "How do you come up with new stuff? I mean, really! There are only so many ways to skin a cat"

This is very true and even more so when your audience/followers are following based on the topic/genre of your blog. Mine happens to focus on "Topping from below" which in S&M terms is when you are submissive until you see an opening and then become the master. Make sense?


Moving on...

1. What is your favorite position for sex?
I'd have to say it depends on where I am. If say at a hotel (which is like an adult playground) I'd answer with being bent over anything that doesn't move..

(ODL, please don't judge me. I'm just being honest)

A favorite is hard to nail down (get it?) like I said, it would depend on where I was.

2. How many orgasms have you had in a 24 hour period?
Damn, it's been a while. 5-6 maybe? Yes, it was at a hotel.


3. Do you like to be spanked?
Not really my thing. Shocked are we?
I don't mind teeth in my shoulder as long as no skin gets broke.


4. Do you think it’s ever okay to fake an orgasm – and when/why? (for real – this is a serious ? a follower wants to know)

YES! I think it is okay as long as it is for the right reason. If you're tired or distracted and know you are not going to get there (and you have a partner who makes a point of caring if you do or not)

I'd say No! if you are avoiding talking about an unsatisfying love life with someone you plan to spend your life with.


5.Repeat question #5. Summarize your week in blogland and in real life.

Blogland is awesome. The support over my freak out is appreciated. I hope to explain a bit more in a future post. BUT I THANK YOU ALL!
I had a meet up recently and that is always cool. I am excited to see the Texas & NY gang planning a bandster lunch.

Real life? N/A

8 comments:

  1. Wow! You go girl! I'm definitely not open about this part of my life, but I can totally respect someone that can be. Good on ya!

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  2. Sexy time! Love your honesty. Great answers to the faking question.

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  3. Thank you for answering - I got a little crazier than usual didn't I?

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  4. Yay, someone else answered, too! :) You go girl!

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  5. I feel a little less freaky now (okay I didn't feel so freaky before but still...) - thanks for that!!!

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  6. After the intro, I was expecting way racier....

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  7. I love your bravery for putting yourself out there. It's a very scary thing. Love your support! So proud of you (even if it's a post about orgasms)! Way to go mom! lol!!!

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  8. I'm not sure I want to wear your jeans anymore! LMAO!!!! LOL!!!!

    Just kiddin'! LOL!!!!!

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